ARE GIRLS WHO MARRY'S OLDER MEN HAPPY?

WRITTEN BY JEROME
YAOVI ONIPEDE. POSTED
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This is one question so many people ask, but not publicly. If you were asked that question,
what will your answer be? Maybe a Resounding
YES, because of the
pictures you see on
Social Media, and it's
usually glamorous, so I
don't blame your judgments.
As a Personal Counselor,
And I am made to
understand things
differently by the first
hand life stories/experiences that comes to
me in Counseling. Since my Counseling
Experience, I am yet to
meet a Girl who got married to
an Older Man, and is
happy about it. though I
have met some Mothers
whose daughters
married older men,
with the Joy of these
Mothers knowing no
bounds, because of the
Gains/Profits they make
from such Union. It
always seems that what
they couldn't get from
their own Husband/
Marriage, they were able
to get from their Son in-
law who is usually within
the same age group as they are. But what's the use when the
girl in the Marriage
herself isn't happy.
What makes these girls
marry these OLD men?
It's usually for different
reasons, and I believe we
can look at a few:
1) Poverty tops the list.
She is from a Poverty-
stricken home, and
marrying such a Man
seems to be the ticket for
her Family to get rid of
poverty. It's obvious that
a lot of people have not
come to terms with the
fact that POVERTY IS A
CURSE, and ONLY GOD
can get rid us off it. Give a
Man cursed with poverty
riches, and the devourer
will visit him from every
side of his life until all the
money is gone. The
worst part is that Poverty
always operates
alongside with SICKNESS
and DEATH, and l will like
to repeat here that ONLY
GOD can deliver a Man
from Poverty and not
even plenty of Money
can do so.
2) The Second reason we
will look at is Strong
Need for Paternity. A girl
gravitates towards an
older man when she
never had a solid
relationship with her
Father, or never sensed
the presence of a Father
in her life. In her bid to
fill that void, she may
find herself dating older
men, and eventually
marry one.
3) A third reason for a
girl Marrying an older
man may be POWER and
Authority. Females love
men in Power, because
they feel VERY SAFE
around them. And don't
forget that SECURITY
means a lot to every
woman you will meet
out there. She wants to
know she is safe,
because her Man is
around to ensure that,
which is why even a
powerful woman
despises a Man that is
weak, and wants to be
with a man more
powerful than she is,
rather than a beggar
who is always asking for
things and for that reason
can't make decisions for
his own life.
4) Rebellion is just
another reason why a
girl marry's or runs off
with an older man.
Maybe her father keeps
chasing all the small girls
in town, and probably
even impregnating them.
She sees how sad her
mother is, and looks for
a way of punishing her
Father, so off she goes
with an older man hoping her father will die of anger. The rebel has never been known to do
right or live right, because rebellion is never a constructive way of solving any issue on ground.
5) Our fifth reason can be the DIVERSION OF CULTURE by GREEDY IMMORAL MEN. Please
don't be deceived, it is NEVER part of the Culture of any tribe in
Africa that OLD MEN should marry girls. Some Men just think they are powerful enough to get
whatever they want. So you find a King who says she desires a small girl from a family for
marriage and no one is able to say no to him, and you also find some money bags from a tribe
who do the same, and it goes on and on, but that does not mean it is the Culture or Tradition of
such people to do so, it is just a Diversion bybGREEDY IMMORAL MEN, and most of them also
end up sleeping with the
Wives of their Sons
eventually, because
these men are under a
Diabolical Bondage as
willing candidates.
And we can go on and
on, but are these girls
happy? Well the ones
who calls me for
Counseling are never happy. They always complain because
1) They never have a chance to run the house, and the more forceful they become about wanting to become the madam of the house, the more they are treated like they are just one of

the figure heads that live
in the house. For example the OLD MAN
husband of hers can just
send a new Freezer
home, without her prior
knowledge, and so when
they ask her where they
should put it, it's usually
the steward that knows
about it, and he is the
one that takes charge at
that point, while she is
just a block head.
2) She eventually finds
out that behind all the
glamour of wealth, is a
life sustained by Medical
Drugs to battle Diabetes,
hypertension, arthritis,
coronary heart disease,
etc. And so she becomes
an emergency nurse,
escorting him all over the
world for Medical tests
here and there, while the
world is made to believe
they are on a Cruise.
3) It's amazing that some
of these "Money Miss
Road" OLDER MEN get to
loose all their money
through tragedies, bad
investments, Law suits,
etc just 5 years after the
Marriage and everything
else you see from then
on is MAKE BELIEVE, with
so much stress on the
small girl who eventually
runs away with a
Musician or a guy she
met on the Social Media.
4) Some of these girls
marry's Politicians old
enough to be their
fathers, forgetting the
fact that Most Politicians
in Africa are only rich
while they are in Power.
Seven years after leaving
the Government, most of
them become much
worse than they were
before they moved into
Government office,
because STOLEN MONEY
has a way of fizzling
away.
5) Getting the OLD
MAN'S Penis up for sex
is a LABOUR, and even
when she succeeds,
helping him to maintain
the erection for a Minute
is a Mortal Miracle, and
so you can never know
her frustration, yet she
knows she's being
watched and will be
reported to the old man if
she tries to go out for
sex, though most of
these girls married to old
men still go out for sex.
Sometimes it is the same
person watching them
for the Old Men that is
sleeping with them.
6) What about the Mouth
Odor from Old Man, and
the way he snores when
he sleeps. Gosh, these
small girls married to old
men really suffer.
So what about the
OLDER MEN themselves,
are they usually really
happy with these small
girls? Well that is a Topic
for another day, but do
your investigations
before then and share
some of your factual
findings with me. Until
then, I hope these small
girls running after old
men will go and look for
their mates, so they can
grow and build
together.